You may not be aware but there is a seismic shift happening in evangelicalism, possibly even a death knell, but more hopefully a reformation.
Over the last few years there has been scandal after scandal of celebrity teachers, preachers, and evangelists who have fallen from grace. It's taken victims, most often women, years to have their voices heard, often after being smeared by their abuser's slander and attacked by their abuser's defenders. The cult of personality is the antithesis of Christianity and yet it is what props up many evangelical movements. Each movement that has relied on the charismatic individual is starting to fall apart - Soul Survivor being the latest as Mike Pilavachi faces 100s of allegations ranging from inappropriate massages and wrestling to narcissistic bullying and creating a toxic workplace.
After being suspended Mike decided to resign and while much has been written about what he said in his resignation on social media it is in this context that two renowned evangelical leaders with global followings decide to speak. Instead of giving voice to those trampled by Mike, or making clear their silence up to this point is due to waiting for the enquiry to pass judgement, both J. John and Terry Virgo decide to share how blessed they've been by Mike’s ministry. Due to my prior connections to New Frontiers, I'll focus on Terry's messages.
"Continuing to pray for you Mike, deeply grateful for the massive blessing you've been in countless New Frontiers settings".
It was surprising to Terry, and his supporters as we'll see in a moment, that this caused a response on social media. So much so that he felt forced to clarify.
I won't copy it out but the following stands out:
- He was uninformed
- Never been involved in Soul Survivor (but doesn't say Mike has been a regular attender to NF leadership conferences over the last few years including one I attended in 2019 as an elder.)
- Hasn't studied "secular newspaper reports"
- "simply prayed for him out of sympathy"
- That the response is because people think Terry has given unqualified endorsement
- His sympathies lie with the traumatised
- He is sorry if his prayers caused dismay (I'll clarify my emphasis in a moment).
On Facebook the response to Terry has been a multitude of people praising and consoling Terry, assuring him of his integrity and grace, shocked that Christians would consider praying for Mike problematic, appalled that Terry has been attacked by a “social media mob”. If those were the things people were actually critical of then maybe they'd have a point. However messy theology is highlighted throughout the responses:
Don't you remember Jesus helping the poor religious leader who was about to stone the woman? Don't you see that Mike is actually the victim here? The reversing victim and abuser roles is typical in abuse situations and this is happening online by those rushing to console Terry that he didn't actually need to apologise.
As that secular newspaper, The Telegraph, writes:
"Another source, who used to work at Soul Survivor and who claims that they were mistreated there, said: “Terry Virgo’s clarification post misses the point – no one is saying it’s wrong to pray for Mike Pilavachi. The problem was his public appreciation for Mike’s ministry. I have no issue with him reaching out to support his friend, but what he did was tone deaf to all those who have been hurt by him and the wider culture at Soul Survivor.
"Claiming ignorance really doesn’t cut it – it takes a quick search online to find many stories of mistreatment and abuse being bravely shared. To say we must wait for the outcome of the investigation is to silence victims and ignore the glaringly obvious." https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/07/17/backlash-church-leaders-praise-soul-survivor-mike-pilavachi/
Terry publicly praised a man who has trampled on many and because of which, many are questioning the very foundations of their faith due to the systems of church which enabled him to do so. Even if the enquiry shows he hasn't done anything illegal, he's clearly not fit for Christian leadership and there are serious concerns the wider church needs to learn from. It isn't Terry's prayers that are the issue, but praising him as a blessing to New Frontiers without any acknowledgement to victims is the problem. Terry could have just sent a personal message, I'm sure he has Mike’s email, instead he chose to put it publicly.
I've learnt, due to personal experience, to always ask what someone says sorry for. Terry's final line is a conditional apology for anyone who may be dismayed by his prayers. This, as the quote in The Telegraph says, missed the point of the criticism and is a non-apology to those hurt by Christian leaders with massive platforms praising a man who has hurt them.
Instead of recognising that his public praise was ill-advised to say the least, Terry deflected, and instead of apologising he put the problem back on his audience - how can you apologise for another person's dismay? Instead of listening to critique, anyone on twitter asking questions of Terry or discussing the issues it raises gets blocked.
Blocking, silencing critique, only highlighting those who say the right things... this isn't new to New Frontiers as a whole. The number of voices highlighting deeper issues within the so-called family of churches are getting louder.
I find myself a stranger in the evangelical world these days, not just New Frontiers. I live and work in it but I don't feel like I fit like I used to. The responses to Terry on FB, many by people I once listened to, highlights the deep disconnect between those who've been burned by church and those who are platformed. It also highlights a lack of desire by many within NF/the evangelical world to think critically or make judgement calls about their leaders. Rather than highlight the overt inconsistency between a poorly thought through message and it's non-apology, the crowd jumps to defend the man and labels the hurting "a mob" and people to be ignored. All "the mob" are asking for is what we teach children when they hurt someone: "I'm sorry that in my ignorance of a situation, I hurt you, and I'll do my best to make it right".
Evangelicalism is falling apart because we continue to prop up those on the platform at the expense of compassion and justice. I hope it is a death knell for the cult of celebrity leaders in evangelicalism but the responses to Terry give me pause on that front. I pray it will be a reformation of humility, mercy, and gentleness. The reformation will start when leaders choose character over gifting, start apologising when they hurt people, and allow themselves to be held accountable by their congregations.
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I have been around New Frontiers church life since 1994, although I left in 2012 when I stepped out of quasi-eldership, I have family and friend connections into the group. I have close associations with 5 new frontiers churches over that time.
The focus on the anointed leaders has always bubbled below the surface and a tendency for apostles to see what they want to see / side with who they want to is very strong. They wouldnt use the language of the lord anointed but the NAR thinking is just below the surface, with a strong clique around the paid leaders being the important ones, and called and equipped by God with a strong control around the lead elders and the incrowd hubs and apostles.
I know with certainty this has led to the covering up of abuse inside New Frontiers church - I believe the culture to be generally controlling and coersive although this is not the case in every church, there are also odd patterns in some churches in terms of leadership turn over. I know of one sexual predator who has prospered inside the group and apostlic leadership have continued to find ways to protect - probably because they see the gifting on his life.
Terry is a nice man, and a good teacher, I believe he has a good heart - but he portrays his priviledge with these comments, i have taken a long time to process my thoughts on this and have found your interview & though illuminating. The Honouring culture is killing the church testimony - you have to honour everyone or no-one but for goodness sake dont honour only some based on a falsehood that some are called or anointed more than others.
We paid for a leadership conference in Brighton with Terry Virgo. At the end, he made everyone get up row by row, join and dance in a train to put money at the front. He said we all had to give money and be cheerful givers. However, we already pay regularly to the church as well as paid for the conference.
It says in the bible, do not give under compulsion. Terry's actions are not biblical because he forced everyone to give money, or else we would feel shamed.
There is heavy pressure on giving, or else God will not bless you. When I was there, I was encouraged to tithe by lifegroup leaders and members even if I could not afford it and would go into debt and not be able to pay my rent.
The church leaders are paid a lot of money.